Dating after 40 might be one of the hardest things single people can embark on. There are so many more factors than dating in your twenties. The fact that everyone has either been divorced or widowed creates a new layer of complexity that people quite often give up on or settle for something less than what they desired.
Men, quite often, look for things in women that they only think they want. Because of misguided desires, they often either fail to find the woman that they want, or they lose a good woman because they don’t see her qualities until it’s too late. But there is a way that men can get what they are looking for: They can create the woman of their dreams.
According to Dr. Myles Munroe, men can create the perfect woman they want by helping her reach her full potential. Munroe, OBE, was a Bahamian evangelist and ordained minister, an avid professor of the Kingdom of God, author, speaker, and leadership consultant who founded and led the Bahamas Faith Ministries International and Myles Munroe International. He died in a plane crash in 2014 during a flight to the Bahamas.
Before his death, Munroe authored books and created videos on how to find and create the kind of life that people want. Munroe was internationally known and respected in his field of study. He felt that men could acquire the women of their dreams by simply creating her.
But what Munroe was really telling men is that they needed to recreate themselves first if they were ever going to find the woman of their dreams.
Men have grandiose ideas of what they want in a woman.
Those ideas are quite often counter to what they actually need. Munroe helps men redefine what they really need based on a new mentality that helps men discover, date, and grow the right woman into becoming the woman of his dreams.
That redefinition is what creates an opportunity to find love. All people come with baggage and have had problematic relationships in the past. Munroe understands this and helps men forge a new path to dating and finding love by helping them open themselves up for change and mental change.
“After reading and studying the teachings of Dr. Munroe I learned that if I was going to find the woman of my dreams, I needed to adjust my thinking on what I really wanted,” Brian from Aurora said. “That change in thinking helped me to start to date women who were better for me. And in return, I helped them become better, too.”
Munroe felt like all people are lacking something. It’s the man’s job to find out what that void is in the relationship and fill it. It sometimes can be filled with love, and other times it can be filled with compassion.
Munroe expects men to lead the relationship by example. Munroe also expects men to create the environment they want with encouragement and support. Once women see this kind of effort, they begin to change and grow into the kind of person that the man was looking for all the time.
The commitment of the man, first, is what creates the perfect woman, thus the perfect relationship.
“I used to chase women for their looks and often would find a beautiful woman, who was not right for me,” Ron from Hudson said. “In the end, what I ended up doing was dating the wrong kind of people for me. That caused me nothing but problems, and I was never happy.”
Munroe also instructed that men need to look beyond beauty when it comes to dating and finding love. He felt like men would put too much pressure on finding the right woman physically and give up on the woman who was right mentally and emotionally for him.
The men who use Munroe’s process for creating the perfect woman sought women who had the qualities they were looking for and built the relationship around that, not beauty.
“I’m looking for compatibility now. I want to be attracted to my woman, but I desperately need our paths, emotions, and desires to be the same. If we can connect on a mental level, it makes me more physically attracted to her. That is my perfect woman,” Brandon from Parma explained.
Munroe authored scores of books during his career. One of his most successful books was Discover the Hidden You: The Secret to Living a Good Life.
In his book, Munroe talks about living your best life with great decision-making, loving who you are, and getting the things you want out of life. In the book, Munroe discusses how men can fulfill their dreams. He encourages people to live their best life by realizing why they were born and working to break down the barriers threatening to limit their God-given purpose.
Munroe preached that everyone could live in their purpose if they would only follow their hearts. Throughout his career, Munroe impacted millions of people and his videos still are some of the most-watched on YouTube.
For men looking to create the perfect woman, Munroe simply said, “If you want a better woman, become a better man and she will develop into the woman you need her to be.” ●
