High-value women (HVW) are some of the most attractive people to pursue. They are often well-spoken, well-dressed, and well-mannered. They live very well and have some of the best assets you can have. They are quite picky when it comes to what they put in their body, and they don’t skimp on the things that make them feel special.
If you’re a man who’d like to date high-value women, you better be prepared as to what it takes to date one successfully. It won’t be simple. You can’t go into the dating process uninformed — you’ll have your feelings hurt.
One would expect that a high-value man is qualified to date a high-value woman. But simply being a high-value man doesn’t guarantee success when it comes to dating an HVW. A man must be on his A-game when seeking the companionship of an HVW because she doesn’t have time to waste.
Her schedule is one of the factors that any man must consider when attempting to court an HVW. She gets up early and prepares for the day. Her schedule is jam-packed with business and maintenance. Her job is important to her, so she’s going to excel at her craft. In addition to a hectic work schedule, her it’s also filled with maintenance. Hair, nails, the workout, massages, pedicures, and Pilates.
Those activities are critically important to her ability to function at a high level. They exist for two reasons: 1) It makes her look pretty and she likes to pamper herself, and 2) it comes with the territory of being an HVW. So don’t ask her to change her schedule so that she can sit next to you doing nothing.
When a HVW describes her goals, she doesn’t display a sense of urgency when it comes to being in a relationship. She knows she’ll find the right partner, and she isn’t going to compromise her values and goals just for the sake of dating someone. So don’t ask her to.
WILL SHE SUBMIT TO YOU
The number one complaint men have about HVWs is the fact that they won’t follow his lead. This is a falsehood because HVW do understand the importance of what it means to behave in the natural order when it comes to being in a healthy relationship.
However, they will not take a back seat to a man who doesn’t know how to lead. HVWs, and women in general, must maintain a certain level of masculinity to navigate their world.
When it comes to their jobs, if they’re going to command a team, they must have a certain level of type A personality to lead well. If they’re going to grow in their positions, they must be able to champion themselves to get to where they want to be.
HVWs would prefer to bask in their feminine energy all the time. But being in their feminine energy wouldn’t have allowed them to get to where they are. For them to bask in their feminine energy, they must feel like the man they’re with can protect them.
Protection comes in several forms:
- Societal protection – Women are not going to play games with the things they own. So many HVWs will only drive a new car with a fully covered warranty. They don’t want to have to find a backyard mechanic to explain repairs that they don’t understand. They’ll also buy new products that come with warranties, so everything they own is top-shelf and covered.
- Physical protection – Women know that the world can be a dangerous place. If her man can’t make her feel safe when they’re out, she’s going to remain masculine to protect herself. Men must understand that protection is paramount to dating success for HVWs.
- Home Protection – An HVW, because she lives by herself or with her children, will always have a home security system. She’s going to have all the doors monitored, cameras that can see inside and outside the home, and she’s going to want all the doors locked and the garage always closed so access to the home is limited. Her safety is first and even if you date her, she won’t give up the feeling of being protected. You will have to confirm and deal with these security measures.
The word “submission” is relative to an HVW. She’ll work to weave her man into her life, but she’ll also continue to use some tactics to remain safe until she’s totally comfortable with the man she’s dating. As a man, those safety measures might be overkill, so men will have to adapt to date an HVW.
WHO EARNS WHAT
Income will always play an important role in dating an HVW. Most likely, the man she dates will not make as much as she does. If you’re the kind of person who must make more than your partner, you’ll not want to date an HVW.
However, if you two can communicate an understanding of how money will play a role in your relationship, this concern can be reduced, and you both can enjoy the fruits of your labors in the relationship.
HVWs are willing to share in their earnings to see their man enjoy the best of life, but they’re not going to be happy for long if their partner is lazy and not ambitious. So, you’ll need to have a clear-cut set of goals you’re actively working on. You’ll need to make sure you can contribute in other ways in the home.
Make sure you talk with your partner to set an expectation of what’s going to be done by you, and what’s going to be paid for with a service. Once that’s done, you can both relax and enjoy each other more.
COMMUNICATION IS THE KEY
Successful relationships all have one thing in common: great communication. For any relationship to work, how you communicate will often determine your level of success. While communicating, make sure that boundaries are set and rules are put in place to guide how, as a couple, you two are going to navigate difficult situations.
There will be situations where you two might differ, so there needs to be things in place that help you two reach successful outcomes without tearing at the fiber of the relationship. Every day will not be rosy, so take the proper measures to aid in developing the necessary communication style that will ultimately bring about success to the union.
There is no doubt that dating in 2024 is challenging. With men and women both working hard to grow, provide, and create the revenue to live fully satisfying lives, it’s necessary to know each other’s habits, goals, values, wants and needs.
Dating an HVW can be one of the most gratifying things a man can do. Knowing what to expect so men can get out of their own way is the key. High value comes from better behavior, and that is the real key to landing an HVW.
