There is no arguing that something is going on in the world of dating. There are increasing examples of beautiful women dating men with less than perfect physical features. Let’s face it, women have always been in control of who they choose to date, marry, and sleep with. And most of society has understood that there is a pecking order on who should end up with whom.
Anyone, on a scale of 1 – 10, who is deemed between an 8 and 10 should only consider being with someone who is also an 8 to 10. Those unfortunate souls who fall below a five should remain amongst their own and only consider dating their own kind. But every now and then, the script gets flipped and we see a gorgeous ten walking down the street with a three.
Well, that script is starting to become the norm because the two worlds of the beautiful and ugly are mixing more than ever. Women are taking a hard look at who makes them happy — and more, they are finding that the guy with the least looks, has more to offer and makes them happier. Here are the reasons why attractive women are dating ugly duckling men.
ATTRACTIVE MEN CHEAT
Women are fed up with guys who aren’t loyal.
“I have dated incredibly attractive men whose eyes seem to follow every woman as she passes us. I never felt like those guys were truly listening to anything I had to say,” Brooklyn commented. “For me, the regular guy paid way more attention to me than the guy who looked good.”
Women are finding that guys with more choices tend to exercise those choices meaning that it’s only a matter of time before they do something to ruin the relationship. Women are starting to draw the conclusion that dating a guy who only seems to care about the next fling, hearing his own voice, or cares about his looks more than her may not be the way to go.
AVERAGE GUYS WORK HARDER TO IMPRESS
When Sara went on a date with an attractive man, she felt like she was competing with whatever hottie was around. Her date never really made her feel like she was the center of attention, so she knew there was nothing there.
“I dated a guy shorter than me for a change and he made me feel wonderful,” Sara explained.
He did everything he could to please me. We had a really fun time because he focused all of his attention on me and that felt great!”
Women want to feel like the center of attention, and they feel like less attractive men spend way more time trying to please them. They do the things that make their dates happy because they know they’re dating above what they should be dating so they don’t want to mess that up.
UGLY DUCKLING MEN ARE LOYAL
The consensus is that ugly men don’t cheat. According to a national study, attractive men are 38% more likely to cheat, because they can, and that’s a problem. Women are learning to trust those statistics and pick men who will be loyal. Loyal men are more basic guys who have the characteristics that women covet.
Those characteristics start with loyalty and include thoughtfulness, kindness, and patience. The last characteristic of an ugly duckling man is happiness. He is typically happier because the attractive woman chose him. So, he’ll create a situation where they are both happy in the relationship because he feels lucky to have her.
UGLY DUCKLING MEN HAVE BETTER SEX
What ugly men lack in looks they seem to make up for it in the bedroom. Because they have to compensate, they tend to perform better in the sack.
“Some of the best sex I’ve ever had was with a man that didn’t look too good,” Claudia said. “I’ve dated bald men, fat men, and short men. Good looking guys just don’t seem to be into as many positions or me for some reason.”
Ugly men seem to want to pleasure their partners on a level that makes them desirable long-term, and thus create a healthy, meaningful relationship. Women want to feel desired, and they need their men to pay attention to them. The men who do this the best are often the men who appreciate them.
Let’s face it, there isn’t enough Botox or plastic surgery in the world that can beat Mother Nature. Beautiful women want to know at the end of the day that a man wants her for who she is inside, as well as what’s on the outside.
If the right man can make her feel special, she’s going to gravitate towards him. Attractive men need to learn to respect and cater to every aspect of a woman. Without that, they will continue to lose to the ugly duckling. ●
